8th week poll analysis "Do you know or used any online dating site?"

The poll question for last week is "Do You Know or Used any Online Dating Site?". The reason we form this question at the beginning is to figure out whether the web user realize the presents of the online dating sites. There are 15 persons has voted for this poll. Therefore, the answers did not state the obvious, the percentage of both answers is almost equal. According to the result, there are 53% voters answered "No" and 47% of voters has chosen "Yes', the difference only 6%. From the result, we can see that peoples are getting to know and in use of these online dating websites yet, there are still more than half of the people do not realize or give a try to these web sites. 

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Live Blogging Session

We did a Live Blogging Session on 23th March 2012, we starts from 8.30pm to 10.30pm. The purpose of doing this live blogging session is to communication with our readers. Besides that, we giving a chance to let our readers to ask any question about our blog, our posts and our contest. 

We used our Facebook Page, Twitter account and our own account to tell people that we are having live blogging session on that day. There are quite a number of people visited our blog and did communication with us. They asked questions for the purpose of doing this blog, discussing the poll analysis with us and also ask for the requirement of our contest. We got the feedback from our readers. Most of the readers happy with our answers and one of the reader praise Gary Tan is cute. Other than that, we encourage our readers to join for our contest as well. 

We get a very good experience from this live blogging session. We learnt how to give people a friendly and manners answer and also we learnt how to work together with our groupmate. Lastly, we need to thanks for those people who visit our blog and did the communication with us. Thank You So Much :)

7th week poll analysis "Which is the most important factor in having an Online Relationship?"

Most of you (19votes) have chosen trust as the most important factor to have an online relationship. From both Jack and Arr Chian, we believe that is the factor as well. Gary on the other hand agrees more towards understanding together with 14 of you voters. 

It is hard to have an online relationship so trust is a good factor to consider. We will never know what the other person is doing for real on the other side of the screen. If we believe what they say, that means we trust them. We agree that trust is all it takes to get a relationship going.

Gary prefers understanding because it cover every part of a relationship issue for him. By understanding the other person's attitude, habits and behaviour will automatically build trust among the 2 parties, hence that is why he agrees with understanding instead.

8 person voted for patients. We assume that you all might have faced this issue before and to avoid arguments, patients would be your main choice. We would like you all to consider the fact that, being patient is one thing, but always remember a drip a day to an empty barrel, eventually the barrel will overflow as well. A person can only be patient for that much, so please consider to express feelings as well as discussing the problem to solve it. 

Finally, there was no votes on constant communication. It clashes with our previous post as most of the votes (over95%) agrees that they use online social media everyday. Due to no votes on this particular answer, we can assume that the general public avoids problems. Less communication has less disagreements hence, we are avoiding the problems. Do you agree?

Again, we would like to thank you all for joining us on our short little poll. Tune in again next week to share with us your feedbacks.

6th week poll analysis "Have you experienced in online relationship before?"

The poll question for last week is "HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED IN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP BEFORE?". This question is basically trying to figure out whether people in Malaysia today have experience in online dating. There are only 6 person who participated in this vote. According to the result, there are only 33% of people had the experiences in online dating but the majority of the people are not. The result is surprisingly contrary from our prediction of the result before we created this poll.

Rules and Regulations

We are organizing a contest for you couples to come join us and stand a chance to win some great prizes.


The contest will be held from 25th March 2012to 1st April. Registration closes on 26th March 2012.


Just follow these easy steps to participate.

Online Relationship: Take it slow

A lot of people involved with online relationship because they are frustrated with their relationship life.  They want to meet interesting people now, and this leaves them perhaps a bit more over jealous than they would have been otherwise.  The result is that they rush into the online relationship process, which can be just as frustrating as their current relationship life.  Take online relationship slow, as this will allow you to attract and find the right kind of person for you instead of just taking what comes. 

The first things you want to do when considering online relationship is find the right site.  There are thousands of online relationship sites out there for you to consider but you need to choose the right one for you.  If there are certain niches that apply to you, such as divorced, a certain race or ethnicity, or anything of the like than chances are you will be able to find a singles relationship website that will be a perfect fit for you.  Just shops around a little bit and see what is out there for you.

5th Week poll analysis "Do you think online relationship can last long?"

We have total of 10 votes for this poll question " Do you think online relationship can last long?" There are 60% of people agreed that online relationship can last long and there are only 40% of people think that online relationship cannot last long in today. 

Nowadays, a lot of people willing to have an online relationship also don't want a real life relationship. Besides that, in our advantages of online relationship mentioned that a lot of people go for online relationship is because they can save their time to go out dating with their partner and also they will more appreciate each other since they seldom meet up. So, 60% of people agreed that online relationship can last long in this century. 

Tips That Helps to Succeeding with Online Dating

Some of the online dating can work out, but some don't. Some of the people had experience online dating just for fun and some of the people go for online dating and they mean it. There are tips that helps to succeeding with online dating.

1. Show your goods but not bads.

In personal profile, tell the strengths about yourself but not the weaknesses about yourself. This is because it will attract people come to you just because of who you are and what you like to do. You can show your weaknesses, but overall the profiles that about you yourself has to be positive.

2. Keep things real but stay positive.

When you got the opportunity to get contact with someone else, keep things real and stay positive. It is not good to ask them with a lot of questions but only few, maybe one or two. Let them to answer you more than you ask. By doing this, it can helps you to built rapport and move your relationship between one another to a higher level.

Does long distance online relationship last till marriages?

 

I will be discussing the realities of online, long distance relationships. Question that would be asked by our own self would be "Whether this relationship would work out or not?"

First of all, this type of relationship exists and yes; they are REAL relationships. In this day and age it's not really difficult to find someone to talk to and fall in love with even if they're a gazillion miles away for as long they have an internet connection.

Stages that would take place: 1.) Meeting

                                             2.)Getting to know one another

                                             3.)Connecting feeling with one another

                                             4.)Lastly would be Confusion stage

Choosing Between Two People

Have you been dating, flirting with, or just interested in two people for some time?  If so, you may feel that it is time to make a choice between the two people so you can truly start a relationship with one.  If you feel badly for being interested in two people, don’t, there are a lot of people who are in a similar position.

First and foremost, you should consider the idea that you don’t have to settle for just one.  You can continue to date both people for as long as you like and really get a sense of who each person is and what they can bring to your life.  If you are interested in two people it generally means that you need to get to know them both a bit more so you can see who is really more suited for you.

If you feel ready to be in a committed relationship and you just aren’t sure which one to pursue it with, consider who shares your beliefs or values.  When you are with someone who shares more of your beliefs or values you will have something to build a relationship on.  Of course, they don’t have to share all of your beliefs and values, but choosing the person who shares at least some of your beliefs than you will be better off.

Online Dating and what it can do for you

Online dating has been the latest craze. A lot of people have employed the services of these sites and have successfully found their perfect mate.

One of the benefits of online dating sites is its simplicity and uncomplicated nature. It is not difficult to decipher how online dating sites work since the purpose of the sites is already stated in its names. It is also easy to navigate your way in the sites because the hosts have made it easy to understand how to create profiles and filter viewers.

Online dating also offers a comfortable and convenient method of finding the right one. You can be yourself in your profile or you can choose to be another person provided that you have what it takes to stick with what is in your profile. Complications brought about by mismatched schedules can also be lessened in online dating sites since there is no rush to meet up and see each other.

4th week poll analysis "Would you end your relationship with the other party if one of you will be abroad?"

The poll question for last week is "WOULD YOU END YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHER PARTY IF ONE OF YOU WILL BE ABROAD?". The reason we question this is to figure out whether our partner will be abroad is a big barrier to continue the relationship. There are 27 votes for this question. The answer from the participants was quite consistent. As a result, there are 89% (24 votes) of the people will not let go to the relationship even their loved one will be abroad. However, there are only 11% (3 vote) people from the chart end the relationship when their partner is going to be abroad.