Sunday, 11 March 2012

Tips That Helps to Succeeding with Online Dating

Some of the online dating can work out, but some don't. Some of the people had experience online dating just for fun and some of the people go for online dating and they mean it. There are tips that helps to succeeding with online dating.

1. Show your goods but not bads.
In personal profile, tell the strengths about yourself but not the weaknesses about yourself. This is because it will attract people come to you just because of who you are and what you like to do. You can show your weaknesses, but overall the profiles that about you yourself has to be positive.


2. Keep things real but stay positive.
When you got the opportunity to get contact with someone else, keep things real and stay positive. It is not good to ask them with a lot of questions but only few, maybe one or two. Let them to answer you more than you ask. By doing this, it can helps you to built rapport and move your relationship between one another to a higher level.



3. Slow down.
Don't move too fast but slow down. Some of the people would love to meet each other very soon instead of chatting online. Some of the people will take the phone number by only chatting with each other for a couples of hour. Or some of the people will ask and go for a date in another week. That is too fast, it can easily scare people away if the person's personality is shy. Slow down and get to know them well for quite a period of time, then only go for the next level.

4. Dress appropriate on the first dating.
First impression is very important. People can judge a person from their dressing, verbal communication and non verbal communication. Showing them appropriate dressing can let them judge you positively.



5. Keep it simple for the first date.
The first date should keep it simple. It is not encourage to spend the whole day. You can probably just meet in a coffee shop or restaurant for a meal or get some tea. Maybe you can spend 2 to 3 hours on chatting to know more about them. Other than that, you can choose to go for movie also so that you can part ways if things does not goes well.

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